Erin S. Lane, M.T.S., is the author of “Lessons in Belonging from a Church-Going Commitment Phobe” and co-editor of the anthology “Talking Taboo: American Christian Women Get Frank About Faith.” Confirmed Catholic, raised charismatic and married to a United Methodist, she is a trained facilitator with the Center for Courage & Renewal. Find more of her writing at www.erinslane.com.